It’s a fact that many of the more popular adult dating websites for young people are escort sites for 16-year-olds. Most of them don’t actually tell you the truth. But it is true and it’s probably a good idea to stay away from them.
It may surprise you to learn that these types of dating websites aren’t really all that safe. That’s because there is no legal age in most states to be able to get a real date. There is nothing stopping a predator from contacting someone under the guise of being someone else. You’ll probably also never know if you signed up with an escort agency that any of the girls you meet have ever been married or had a criminal past. There are just too many risks.
It would seem that there would be a lot less risk involved if you met through a friend. You’d know right away whether they had a real interest in you. But since most of these sites are basically online fronts for adult websites, you’ll have no way of knowing who they really are until you’ve spent time on one of their webcams.
But even then, you might have some warning. For example, some of the girls on webcam will let you know that they’re looking for a long term relationship. If you don’t already have one then it might be a good idea to start searching for one. However, there are other signs that might jump out at you.
You’ll know if they’re trying too hard to look your way into a relationship. They’ll put on a show that makes you think they want you just for sex. They’ll talk to you in a strange way and they might fidget uncomfortably while they’re talking. They might accentuate how beautiful they are or how good they are in bed.
If you think you might be having sex with them, then they won’t put up much of a fight. Most of these webcams are set up so that you can’t see the person’s face. They’ll send you little messages occasionally but they’ll be very light and vague. They’ll also send you pictures, but they won’t let you see them. So even if you think you know who they are through the messages they send, it might still be best to look further into them before you decide to sleep with them.